Pretty and useful things
When I was doing demonstration weaving the weekend before last, many people were curious as to what I was weaving. The answer was dishtowels that were going to be sold at Fine Line. More than a few times, certainly enough that I started to become aware of it, the reply to my answer was, "Oh, that's too pretty! I could never use it as a dishtowel!!"
After multiple occurrences of this particular conversation, it started to rankle a bit. Because the truth is, the yarn for the loom was all bits of leftovers. There really wasn't anything precious about it. It was also 100% cotton, which is also a pretty ubiquitous fiber. Even me pointing this out and adding that handwoven cotton towels last a very long time and actually dry things, most of the commenters still insisted they were too pretty to use.
Why don't we allow ourselves to use beautiful things for utilitarian tasks? It seems that adding beauty to your life, even for such a pedestrian task as drying dishes, would be beneficial. Dishtowels get used all the time, so you would be able to appreciate the pretty thing that much more often. Certainly far more often than if you stuck it in a drawer and only brought it out on special occasions. But would you remember to? And how would you decide the occasion was special enough?
Once again, I urge you to use the beautiful things you have. They were made for a purpose and enjoying them means they need to come out of the cupboard or drawer or closet. There are no guarantees in life, enjoy their beauty now. And if something happens to them and they get ruined or broken, you at least appreciated them while you had them. Having beautiful items that stay locked away and never used for fear of damage seems the greater tragedy.
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