Ordinary Time

When I'm talking with parents, I often urge them to try to use humor to lower the emotional temperature in their home. (To be clear, using humor that is just generally funny or self-deprecating to the parent is what I mean. Making fun of a child, especially one who is struggling, is never going to end well.) Humor can help make things less intense and take the edge off things. By using humor, we show our children that we aren't angry and the situation is much less dire than it could be. These are all great reasons to nurture your sense of humor. Imagine my excitement when I was reading a book about a totally different topic this afternoon and came across yet another reason to add the use of humor into your parenting (or relationship) toolbox... it helps create a sense of felt safety and connection. I know I am always nattering on about felt safety and connection, but the more I read, the more I parent, and the more I work with other parents, I become more and more convinced tha...

This is what I've been working on for the past couple of days and it's far more interesting than showing you a picture of my computer and telling you I spent the afternoon on Teams. (A new online  Certificate program in Equine Assisted Services began today, which I am co-facilitating.) This is the English paper piecing (EPP) project I have been working on. After fiddling with the placement for a few weeks, I finally had something I liked.  This is seven hundred hexagons. You can see it wasn't quite enough. I figured that would be the case, so I wasn't surprised. Here are the three fabrics I'll use for the last forty or so hexagons. In the meantime, though, I really need my studio table. I was also more than a little concerned that some animal or child would accidentally move them around. Today I spent labelling each hexagon with it's place in the design. (It's paper piecing so there are papers inside that I can write on.) I went by column, giving each colum...

As you pull into our driveway, the first sign you see is this. You'll notice that would be 'ducks' plural. But we haven't had more than one duck for several years. I love ducks and ducklings; I don't love brooding them. It's the biggest reason we have had just Duck for so long. L. promised she would be the one to take care of ducklings, so in February I ordered four Welsh Harlequin ducks.... three hens and a drake... with a hatch date of May 18. They have been eagerly anticipated. Yesterday I received the notice that they had hatched and shipped. All we had to do was wait for our post office to call and say they arrived. I don't like little baby ducks (or chicks) to have to live in their shipping box longer than necessary, so I was relieved when the post office called about noon to say they had arrived. L. and I immediately cashed out to collect them.  I'm always relieved when I peek in the box and see that everyone has survived.  Can you see the little ...

But it was an intense weekend with a lot of people-ing and I don't think I have the bandwidth to write much of anything. So instead, enjoy a couple of pictures of the bagels Y. made last night. There is jalapeno and everything. They are very good.

I've spent the day getting things at home ready for me to leave for the weekend. The laundry, kitchen, and food are all in order for everyone at home. I have even nearly finished packing, which is good because I have a flight leaving first thing in the morning. I'll be heading to New Hampshire to attend the Horses and Healing Symposium for equine assisted services professionals. It also means I get to catch-up with friends from Athena , which if I'm honest, I'm looking forward to even more than the actual symposium. I have no idea if I'll have time to check in here while I'm away. I will certainly tell you about it when I get back. I'll probably also post a few updates on the Bittersweet Farm Facebook page if you're really dying of curiosity. 

With me going out of town this weekend and the temperatures supposed to become ratter warm, it was time to finish shearing the sheep. I sheared Clark on Monday, though I don't have pictures, and I finished Fred today. Plus I was getting very tired of having to look at his ridiculous haircut.  The before: And the after: I get a little faster each time I do it, but I think I probably have years before it feels natural and easy.