Ordinary Time

Does anyone else collect careers they think they might have enjoyed if only they had known about them when such decisions need to be made? I have a running list that I keep adding to, with my most recent addition of experimental archeologist. This was because I was listening to a podcast where Sally Pointer was being interviewed. I've been aware of Ms. Pointer for a while, but this was the first interview I had listened to.  One of her areas of interest and experimentation is bast fibers, of which the flax plant is one. Linen comes from the inside fibers of the flax plant and it is quite an involved process to go from the plant to a spinnable fiber. (Thank you to everyone who sent me the link to the YouTube channel about the woman documenting her journey of growing flax with the end goal of sewing a linen dress.) The fiber from the flax plant is the long and strong fibers found inside the stem. The process involves getting (really controlled rotting) the outside vegetable matter, ...

I didn't care for or enjoy East of Eden, but I can't seem to get away from it. Evidently there is going to be some television version coming out soon, and I seem to be seeing all of the articles discussing the book and production. I truly don't understand why everyone is so gaga over it. Reading a couple of the articles helped me understand why I had so many issues with the book, though. In my first post about the book (linked above), I had mentioned that I didn't buy Steinbeck's assertion that some people are just born evil nor did I enjoy his tacit mysogony. Even as I wrote that post I knew I wasn't really getting at the crux of the problem.  Here's what I think ultimately disturbed me the most. Cathy, the truly evil character in the book, is almost a caricature because she is just so evil without any redeeming characteristics. There are also a couple of male characters who are able to "see through" Cathy because they have evil impulses within t...

I came across an article about an international study a few days ago that I wanted to talk about. It was a study looking at key childhood experiences that predicted emotional well being in adulthood. For the well being piece, the researchers looked at health, happiness, anxiety, life satisfaction with social relationships, and a general trust in others.  There were three experiences in childhood which correlated with positive measures of these components. Just three. They were: Responsive care from parents (or caregiver), ample amounts of free play, and positive emotional climate at home.  It's actually pretty straightforward. You probably guessed that it was the free play item that caught my eye and was the reason I decided to share it.  Before I start making people unhappy, let's do a quick review of what free play is and why it's so important. Free play is child directed activity that is enjoyable for the child. This is not play or activities that are directed by adult...

When J. goes to work he takes whichever children have classes that day with him. They go to class, do homework, roam the school until their father is done for the day and then they all come home. It's a great system with no extra driving needed. It's a great system that is until J. needs to be at a meeting off campus two hours away all day.  While there is a shuttle bus that goes between the end of the Metra line in our little town and the NIU campus in DeKalb, there is no additional transportation from NIU to the community college in a small town three miles further west from DeKalb. (For selfish reasons, I really think there should be a regular shuttle between NIU and the community college.)  This meant I found myself driving children too and from school today. It was a lot of driving especially since I added in a bunch of errands on each return trip... Getting gas, Costco, farm store, equine vet (to pick up prescriptions, and the library all told. The library was the last s...

I feel I need to say out loud what I am not hearing said regarding the gang rape of a woman in a frat house at Cornell University. All 57 men who were involved in some way are cowards. The administration who swept it under the rug are cowards. The national governing body of the fraternity (from whom I've seen nothing at all) are cowards. They were all so afraid of drawing attention to themselves by doing what was right that they instead did nothing at all except pretend it wasn't happening.  Do you want to know who are not cowards? Any woman who reports a sexual assault. She knows exactly what she is in for. These woman are not treated kindly by the system. It takes guts to do what is right even though you know that it will exacerbate the pain of the original assault.  In my opinion, all 57 men who either participated or stood by need to be charged and prosecuted. At a minimum, all members of the administration who covered it up need to be fired without their golden parachutes...

I'll spare you my sad and frustrating story about the project on my floor loom. It's ultimately going to be okay, but I think I just need several straightforward projects after this. Moving on... I'm also weaving 100% wool scarves on my rigid heddle loom. Here is the first off the loom and all ready to go. The next one is already warped and I'm working on the weaving.  This one will be a plaid instead of hounds tooth.  And that's all I have for you. As a bonus, I wanted to share a picture of our drake whose colors are nearly all in now.  But what I want you to really pay attention to is the cute little curl he has in his tail feathers. I know it's a typical drake kind of thing, but I think it's so cute!